Showing posts with label pride. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pride. Show all posts

Friday, May 2, 2008

PRIDE is a Factor

Senitive,Pride
Ever wonder how you can handle a person who's too sensitive and got a mountainous Pride? They tend to make small things complicated and you strive hard to explain to that person that you did not mean it and that he/she just misunderstand it. My problem is that, i got pride but not that much. Even if its not my mistake, i tend to feel guilty and i would start admitting that its my fault and all that, but again, it's not my fault. I normally adjust to the scenario, if the problem is not that big, why bother to make it big? why can't we just meet half way and admit one's fault?

Problem?
Now, that's the problem... If you both got PRIDE, most likely you won't get around that much, because both of you won't admit your fault and that would cause break-ups. If one of you got the Pride, i still won't say a perfect match, your partner might abuse it and in return, BANG! I think the best would be both of you got enough Pride,just to settle things out and lessen the sensitivity part. It's my opinion and you got yours.

Monday, March 31, 2008

Depending Too Much

Im sorry if i wasn't able to update my blog. My internet connection is still freakin out.

March 27,2008 SATURDAY
The Facilities Supervisor called me up and asked me for a favor. He told me to go to Skyrise and take pictures of these and that...and he wants it to be prioritized. After the call, I immediately went to Skyrise Building and took some shots. I went back to Golden Peak Hotel around 1:30pm and i told him that its ready and if i should save it on his PC and he said no. I asked if i should save it in the laptop instead and he said he would still ask permission. Late afternoon, he called me up and asked me where the laptop is and i said its with the other department because they used it last Wednesday. "I just want to know where it is so that i can pull it out anytime." he said.

I forgot to tell him that i was on leave Friday March 28, but i told the HR though.

Graduation
It was my younger brother's graduation and yes, inspite of his low grades he graduated. Oh my... hahaha
Around 1:30pm, got a call from my work place that the computers are not working well and stuff like that. "Oh man, im on leave..." I said to myself, and since im on call, i just need to go. I was not paid for visiting a few minutes there.

March 29 Saturday
I attended the Microsoft Seminar about Microsoft Express Design. It was fun and a new thing to me. I then went back to the workplace and WHALA!!! "hey where have you been, the facilities supervisor was looking for you and he was really piss off because you did not attend to what he requested..." and i was like? HUH? HUH? HUH? WHAT???

as i enter to another department, the same story was told and i was like....WHAT THE??? Our HR asked me to see her and before i went home, our Manager asked me the same question... DUH???

What exactly Happened
I told them the story that i was not able to tell him that im on leave and that i need to attend the seminar this morning ( Saturday ), and the supervisor thought i was hiding from him. Im not hiding and why should I???

Too MUCH!
First of all, If your requesting for help, you don't act like your the boss because your not one. 2nd, Your not the only person i attend to in this building, don't be greedy. 3rd, Find option...don't always rely on one person. 4th, Follow-up on things and don't wait for it to appear in front of you, LAZZY ASS! 5th, Never criticize others, if you want to...just make sure your perfect enough for others not to criticize you in return.

LEARNINGS!
Pride, put in down or raise it up, look at the situation. You'll make things worst with that kind of attitude. Requesting, don't get mad because your the one who needed help, unless you paid him. Ask nicely and politely.

When HIRING PEOPLE! make sure they are qualified for the job. A psychologist cant be an ENGINEER or the like.